Can’t Buy Me Love

A man living in Illinois has been dating a woman via Facebook for two years now, and has never once met or seen her in person. Apparently, the man sent his love interest $200,000, and was soon shocked to find that she never even existed.”

I don’t see myself sending $200,000 to my new Facebook boo, especially if I’ve never met the individual face-to-face.

Boo-bear better be doing something strange for some change or shaking it fast for some cash to get me to come up off of those funds. But not everyone shares my sentiment, which is why Mr. Loverman in Illinois got duped.

I’m just amazed his invisible-better-half kept up the charade for two years.  But then, his acts of generosity and frequent money mailings during the course of the imaginary relationship probably made it hard to say good-bye.

Scholarships For White Men Only

Ya know, I really don’t have any commentary. The video is enough.

At Texas Colleges: Grades and Guns

From the Houston Chronicle – “Texas is preparing to give college students and professors the right to carry guns on campus,adding momentum to a national campaign to open this part of society to firearms.

More than half the members of the Texas House have signed on as co-authors of a measure directing universities to allow concealed handguns. The Senate passed a similar bill in 2009 and is expected to do so again. Republican Gov. Rick Perry, who sometimes packs a pistol when he jogs, has said he’s in favor of the idea.

Texas has become a prime battleground for the issue because of its gun culture and its size, with 38 public universities and more than 500,000 students. It would become the second state, following Utah, to pass such a broad-based law. Colorado gives colleges the option and several have allowed handguns.”

As much as I want for our college campuses, students and faculty to be safe and protected – I cannot bring myself to cosign on this bill.  Not that my signature is needed for it to pass, but seriously I can’t support it.  I’d rather see an increase in campus security or a task force of undercover officers placed on campuses and inside classes in the event of a heated situation.

In the wrong hands guns are a deadly weapon and too often, guns fall into the wrong hands.  While supporters of the bill glance down the tunnel at a vision of perfectly protected campuses.  I’m viewing the wider scope of a frayed bill going terribly wrong.  There are too many possibilities of tragedy, some at the hands of a crazed vigilante and some at the hands of a best friend or trusted official.

In the midst of a struggle or heated argument, an angered mind might resort to violence as a resolution.  Sticks and stones may break your bones but a bullet in the butt can kill you.

In the past, we have watched news reports on situations that turned deadly among enemies as wells as friends. Simple arguments have escalated and turned fatal with middle-aged adults, thirty-something adults and even seasoned adults.  College students are no exception to the rule.  I’d like to believe allowing concealed weapons on campus would exercise a heightened level of security.  But sadly, as I look at the possible scenarios, passing a concealed weapon bill will likely be the opening of a can of worms society isn’t ready to deal with.

College is supposed to be about finding yourself, getting a better grip on this thing called life and transitioning from a child to adulthood.  Somehow the ambiance of College Life will likely get lost in the midst of packing your books, your bags, your Blackberry and your Beretta.

Thoughts?

God Bless The Child

Dr. Burtin Grebin once said – “To lose a child is to lose a piece of yourself.”

So Jessica Tata, the 22-year-old day care provider now facing child endangerment charges has fled the country and ran back to her homeland Nigeria.

Now that’s a coward.  Pardon my bluntness, but coward is the  nicest word that comes to mind.  Efforts are now underway to see if Tata can be extradited back to the U.S., I hope the efforts prove successful.

The Houston Police Department already confirmed finding surveillance video from a nearby grocery store that shows Tata shopping for groceries around the same time the fire broke out at the residential day care.  So instead of taking her lumps like an adult, she runs like a coward back to her homeland.  She’s a class act.

What makes the story so heart-wrenching is that Tata was a day care provider trusted to care for someone’s child.  Every day parents leave their children with someone with the hope and assurance the child will be safe; not left in a dangerous situation unattended.  A parent doesn’t count on the idea that if God forbid, something bad happens the adult entrusted with their child’s safety and well-being will pull a coward move, lie about the details of the situation then run from the system to avoid facing the courts.

Few words can really capture the emotion of this situation.  Tragic.  Sad.  Unbelievable.  Houston hearts are heavy and while no words or court sentence will bring back the children  – one only hopes the parents will eventually find comfort and strength in the days that lie ahead.